Nigerian rapper, actor, and activist Folarin Falana, popularly known as Falz, has advised young Nigerians not to rush into marriage before the age of 30, saying many people in their 20s are still growing emotionally, mentally, and financially.
Speaking during an appearance on The BTS Reality Podcast, the 35-year-old entertainer encouraged young people to resist societal pressure and focus on building themselves before making lifelong commitments such as marriage.
According to Falz, the twenties represent a crucial stage of personal development, where individuals are still discovering who they are, defining their goals, and laying the foundation for their future.
"I don't think people should rush into marriage before they are 30," he said, explaining that many people are still evolving during their twenties and may not yet be fully prepared for the responsibilities that come with married life.
The award-winning musician stressed that emotional maturity, financial stability, and self-awareness are important qualities that should be developed before entering marriage.
Falz noted that many young people feel pressured by family expectations, cultural norms, or social media trends to get married at an early age. However, he argued that marriage should be a personal decision based on readiness rather than age or public opinion.
He advised young adults to use their twenties to invest in education, careers, entrepreneurship, travel, and personal growth while developing healthy relationships and gaining life experiences that will help them make informed decisions in the future.
The comments have generated widespread reactions on social media, with many Nigerians expressing varying opinions on the subject.
Some users agreed with the entertainer, saying that delaying marriage allows individuals to become more emotionally mature and financially independent before starting a family. Others argued that there is no universally "right" age for marriage, insisting that readiness depends on individual circumstances rather than a specific age.
Relationship experts also note that successful marriages depend on several factors, including communication, shared values, emotional intelligence, financial planning, and mutual respect, rather than age alone.
Falz has often used interviews and public appearances to discuss social issues affecting young Nigerians, including governance, education, mental health, and personal development.
His latest comments add to the ongoing national conversation about changing attitudes toward marriage, careers, and adulthood among younger generations.
While opinions remain divided, many agree that the decision to marry should be based on personal preparedness, emotional maturity, and compatibility rather than societal expectations or external pressure.
As conversations continue online, Falz's message has resonated with many young Nigerians who believe that building a stable future and understanding oneself are important steps before making lifelong commitments.